A theme for the year is an umbrella and it will set the tone for 2012.
One of MY themes this year is “stay in my lane”. I’m pretty darn focused already but I want to be even more so this year.
One of the challenges of being a creative person is the sheer volume of ideas that float around in my mind. There are so many projects I’d like to do and many directions I’ve considered going with my business. And, since I open myself up to receiving input from the outside world (smart to do, since it does add fuel to creativity), I get a daily dose of emails about various programs, trainings and ‘ways to go’ with my biz. Staying plugged in, to a degree, helps me know what’s hot and the trends within my industry and the world.
Last year was a year of gathering ideas. This year, it’s about executing more of my ideas.
For example, last year I learned about publishing for e-readers such as Kindle and Nook. This year, I’m publishing some tomes! No, not really. I have a short series in mind.
Hey, if MY theme fits YOU, borrow it!
If not, here are some additional ideas for you to consider!
* Abundance
* Completion
* Simplification
* Home as a Haven
* Balance
* Confident Communicator
* Rebuilding
* Healing
* Health and Radiance
* Money Machine
* Superhot at 50
* Being Fully Supported (recruiting people to help you in all areas of life)
* Doubling My Network of Friends
* FUN and laughter
* Working less, making more
* Collaboration
* Awareness
* Personal Growth
* Stretching Myself (beyond a comfort zone)
* Feeling Grateful
* Easy-Breezy
You can get as creative with your wording as you’d like. A solid theme feels empowering and exciting. What will yours be this year?
A few notes about themes:
1. All of your goals will *not* align with your theme, most likely. That’s OK. Many of them will, though.
2. One way to determine your theme is to look at the top goals you want to accomplish this year and see if there’s a common ‘theme’ such as restoring your health or updating your home.
3. Yes, you may choose more than one theme. Select up to three, if you’d like. Consider having one for work and another for your personal life.
4. LOOK at your theme every single day as a constant reminder of the direction you want to go this year. I can’t stress this enough. An easy way to do this is by framing your theme as a single word or phrase and displaying it in a prominent place. Where will you look at it each day? By the kitchen sink while doing dishes? Your bathroom? Nightstand? No one else needs to know what ‘abundance’ framed by your sink means. It’s your theme so choose a location that serves you.
5. Once you have a theme identified, you’ll find it’s much easier to select goals. Let’s say your theme is ‘Abundance’. Ask yourself: What would ABUNDANCE (or any theme word) do this year? Then, write out whatever comes to mind as your goals.
Questions To Help You Pick Your Theme
* What would bring you peace if you could find a solution for it? (ex: If debt is a problem, choose a money related theme.)
* What’s something you’ve been ignoring that needs some attention? (ex: Relationship in trouble due to work schedule? Love or Balance might be good themes.)
* What’s a life lesson that keeps popping up? (ex: Always feel like you’re in survival mode? Getting Ahead is a good theme.)
* What do you value most? (ex: Does simplicity always nurture you? Choose Simplicity as a theme for the year and apply it to every area of life.)
* What brings you joy? (ex: Do you love your one hour in the garden each month? Ramp it up as a theme this year and call it Green Thumb year or Hobby-Time.)
* What was your theme last year, even if it was unintentional? (ex: Were you in fear mode? If you could do it over, which theme would’ve produced a more fulfilling year? Choose that for 2012.)
ANYTHING goes with a theme. Play with your words and come up with something that FEELS really good and exciting on some level.
Your coach,
Happy Holidays!
Enrollment is OPEN for the following programs launching in the New Year:
Inner Circle - January is the PERFECT time to set goals for 2012. We’ll begin with a discovery process to clearly identify what you want to achieve this year. Then, each week, you’ll tackle a few key goals and share your results or ask for help via a focus form you’ll send me every Sunday/Monday. In addition, you’ll receive bonus items each week to keep you inspired all year-long! This program mirrors the elements of my phone coaching practice at a more affordable price. Delivered via email and online with an option for single phone sessions as needed. Access the material on your timetable each week, in your jammies if you want! Starts January 9th.
The Blitz- Drill down on ONE main project/goal each month, quickly creating momentum and progress. We’ll begin the year brainstorming projects or goals you want to tackle in 2012. Then, you’ll choose one each month and do something to move the goal forward each day. I’ll provide the encouragement, accountability and fun group of participants! It’s nearly impossible to not make progress since you’ll be on my radar each day. Delivered via email and online with brief coaching calls, as needed. Starts January 9th
Phone Coaching- Let’s clarify what you want to accomplish in all areas of your life or with a specific project. Each week, we’ll talk by phone and strategize your next steps forward. You may choose 2, 3 or 4 sessions a month. Begin January or February
What’s on your wish list for next year?
Hope your holiday season is full of hope, peace and FUN.
Your coach,
Kristin
I want you to imagine something: Picture in your mind a powerful magnet. Now imagine that you place hundreds of metal shavings near it. The magnet attracts the shavings, but with each one that sticks to it, its power decreases just a bit. Eventually, the magnet can no longer attract anything because it’s loaded with the shavings.
The magnet is you. Now, I know you’re not made of metal and shaped like a horseshoe, but you do have the pull of a magnet. The metal shavings represent your bad habits. Each one lessens your power to attract “good” things into your life. Let’s identify and get rid of habits that are muting your natural ability to attract what you want.
Here are some bad habits that I see dragging down my clients, and ways you can get rid on them.
The Technology Trap
The Internet is a huge time-waster. Many of us spend hours on there every day, clicking from site to site instead of, say, actually working or creating a healthy habit like going for walks or making nutritious meals. Here’s how to keep surfing in check.
Change your password. One of my clients had her husband change the password to the forum she spent the most time on, which was accessible to members only. For a few days she’d find her fingers twitching towards the browser tab where she usually kept this forum open, but soon the feeling passed and she felt a great sense of freedom—and free time.
Are you addicted to a website that makes you log in to read it? Give a friend or family member your password, then ask them to log in, change your password, and keep the new password from you unless you really, really need it.
Get blocked. You can download an extension for Firefox called BlockSite (https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/3145) and use it to block your favorite time wasters. Not on Firefox? Block Websites Buddy (http://block-websites-buddy.smartcode.com/info.html) works for all popular browsers and costs $29.95. A small price to pay to gain back hours of your time!
Be free. If you’re on a Mac, download the free software Freedom (http://www.macfreedom.com). This software will disable your networking for any amount of time from 10 minutes to eight hours. This means you can’t surf the web at all. The only way to get back online before the time is up is to reboot your computer, which really helps you resist the urge to try to pop online. If you’re on a PC, I’m afraid that there doesn’t seem to be any similar software. One alternative may be as simple as quitting your browser. If you have to relaunch your browser, that will give you time to think twice about surfing when you don’t really need to.
Time yourself. Try setting an egg timer for 15 minutes and surfing only until the alarm goes off. Then, get up and do something else. Try replacing Internet surfing with a healthy habit like long baths, exercise, or reading.
You Are What You Eat (Really!)
Eating a poor diet of fast food, convenience foods, sugar, and dairy will dull your “attractiveness” and decrease your energy and motivation. Consider which foods make you feel your best and add them to your diet this week—and subtract foods that make you feel de-energized. It’s as simple as that.
TV Tension
I know some people who finish work and then plop down in front of the TV until bedtime. Then they complain not only of not having enough time to reach their goals, but of being too exhausted to be motivated! TV can suck both your time and your energy, and it dulls your Glow by numbing you. I understand that after a hard day at work you deserve to relax, but TV is not relaxing so much as draining. Here’s how you can ditch this bad habit.
Replace it. Yes, you deserve to relax and have a good time. But instead of watching TV, can you find a healthier option for relaxing? For example, could you sip a cup of tea, take a half-hour bath, read a book, go for a walk? These things not only take less time than a typical TV program, but they’ll leave you feeling refreshed instead of tired. And even if they did take as much time as a TV program, at least you will feel energized and not drained.
Cut the cable. Would you watch less TV if you didn’t have 200 channels to choose from? Then gain time and save money by getting rid of your cable subscription.
Unplug it. Doing something as simple as unplugging your TV can help cut down on your tube-viewing hours. If you have to plug it in before watching, you’ll think twice about whether you’d rather zone out in front of the TV or do something more energizing.
Set a timer. Can’t go cold turkey? Set a kitchen timer for a little less time than you usually spend watching TV in the evening, and every day shave off 15 more minutes. When the timer goes off, turn off the TV and find something else to do. This technique is even more effective if, instead of having a kitchen timer, you have a live timer — that is, a partner or kid who will pull you away from the TV at the appointed time.
Go all the way. Feeling brave? Put your TV in a closet. Eventually, if you find you don’t have the urge to watch it at all anymore, you can sell it. This may sound extreme, but I know plenty of people who live TV free. You can find lots of other, more motivating, things to occupy your time.
Cocktail Hour
Take an honest look at how much you drink. Do you have to plop down on the couch every evening after work and have a glass of wine to relax? Like with TV and the Internet, try replacing this habit with one that makes you feel more awake and alive. How about a glass of sparkling water with lime instead of a glass of wine? Or try revving up with a yoga class or video.
The Procrastination Problem
Procrastination—having things you want to do but not doing them—is a bad habit for many of my clients (before coaching!)
I encourage my clients to have big, audacious goals, but if you don’t know how to break down big goals—or even small ones—into digestible, easily doable bits, the result can be stalling. You may procrastinate on getting started simply because you’re not clear on what the next step is. Try chunking your goal down into small steps, preferably ones that take under an hour to complete. For example, if your goal is to write a book, your first step might be to read up on how to write a book proposal. Then you can focus on one section at a time until the proposal is done. The next step after that might be to spend an hour researching agents online and going over their guidelines. And so on.
Another procrastination producer is lack of energy. Ditching some of your bad habits will make your energy skyrocket, but in the meantime, try this trick: When you want to do something but don’t feel energized enough to make headway towards the task, get up and stretch. You need to get out of your head and into your body. In addition, just a little bit of movement will give you a quick shot of energy so you have the momentum to get through your task.
Sleep Snafus
We need a full night’s sleep to be our brightest selves. But many of us crumple into bed exhausted at the end of the day, sleep poorly, and wake up early to a blaring alarm, still feeling like we need more sleep.
In my opinion, LOTS of people have very unhealthy sleeping habits. The good news is that you can totally change any bad habit, including how you sleep.
Stress is a major factor. Between putting in eight hours at work, keeping house, and shuttling the kids to their after-school activities, who’s got time for sleep? And when you finally do get to hit the hay, you’re so worried about Johnny’s poor report card or your presentation at work that sleep seems miles away. Instead of stressing out—and making the situation worse—try these tips to get your forty winks.
Be in the dark. You need pitch black in order to sleep well. I recommend removing all light-emitting technology like digital clocks and computers from the bedroom, but if you can’t, invest in an inexpensive sleep mask. (Brookstone has a good, soft one.) That’s my new favorite travel item! Sleep masks are awesome.
Don’t force it. If you’ve been snoozeless for more than 15 minutes, get out of bed and do something relaxing like reading a light book or meditating. Return to bed only when you begin to feel sleepy. If you remain tossing and turning in bed, you’ll begin to subconsciously associate the bed with not sleeping.
Sleep only. Don’t do anything that could be construed as rewarding, like studying, doing housework, or balancing the checkbook, in bed. If you get a benefit from your activity, you’re subconsciously rewarding yourself for not sleeping.
Stay steady. Try to maintain a regular sleep schedule, even on weekends and vacations.
Don’t drink up. Avoid caffeine and alcohol within four to six hours of bedtime, as these substances can disrupt sleep. (Yes, even so-called relaxing alcohol!)
Keep cool. The optimal temperature for getting a good rest is 68° F. Don’t blast the heat in the winter, and in the summer try an air conditioner or a window fan in the cooler evenings.
Eat well. What you eat during the day can affect your sleep. If you nosh on heavy foods, your body will be working on digesting them when you want to sleep. Try not to eat after dinner, and dine on light foods like fish and steamed vegetables.
Re-think your nightly pre-bed ritual. RELAX at night. Stay off of the computer (allow your mind to relax) and prepare yourself for sleep.
Of course, I can’t list every bad habit here, but these are the biggies. Do you have other habits you need to banish, such as playing video games, gossip, oversleeping (another common sleep problem), or drinking too much coffee? Think up ways to get rid of them. Be creative! You may need to do something extreme, like selling the video game machine, avoiding gossipy friends, clearing your home of coffee, or setting your alarm even when you don’t technically have to be up.
Ready to DO SOMETHING with all of this info?
Identify the number one habit that’s dragging you down. It may be something I listed above, or it may be something completely different.
Think up a plan for getting rid of the habit, or if you can’t, at least cutting it in half. Again, be creative! Finally…..think about a healthy habit you can use to replace your bad habit. Go with your groove by thinking up healthy habits that will satisfy the same need the bad habit met.
For example, if you watch TV to relax, try a soothing yoga video. If you need coffee to wake up, try a brisk walk or a cold glass of sparkling water. If you collapse into bed after a busy day because you’re exhausted, try easing your way into a restful sleep by taking a warm bath instead.
We all have things we worry about from time to time. Today, I’d like to teach you a fun and simple way to release yourself from worrying too much…which is totally exhausting (worrying, not this exercise), by the way! It’s called a ‘God Jar’ in some circles. But, you’re welcome to call it anything you’d like. The basic idea is that there’s a force in the world (God, The Universe, a Higher Power) ready to help you at a monment’s notice. The KEY is learning how to ask for help and ALLOWING the help to come forth.
Before we get started, I’d like you to think about the last time you ate at a restaurant.
You looked at the menu and ordered your food, right?
Did you badger the waitress every minute thereafter? “Is it ready yet? Is it ready yet?” Nope, you probably didn’t.
Instead, you ordered the food fully expecting it to be cooked and delivered to your table at some point.
So, after ordering, you relaxed and focused on other things…such as a conversation with friends at the table.
Now, are you approaching your GOALS in the same way?
Or, are you impatiently waiting for them to be “delivered” to you?
Some of you have some anxiety about your goals and wonder when/if they will ever happen. You’re GRIPPING your goals too tightly, in other words. This causes you to WORRY which isn’t helpful at all.
I am a big fan of “law of attraction” which states that we attract or repel things all day long. Yes, it happens moment to moment each and every day.
After years of styuding this law, what I’ve learned is that how you FEEL about something is truly the power behind attraction.
If you feel excited and hopeful about losing weight, you will find yourself losing weight.
However, if you really feel hopeless or frustrated about that goal, you’ll find yourself struggling with it.
So, the KEY is to do whatever it takes to FEEL great about the goal you want to manifest. That’s why a vision board and visual anchors matter so much.
What do you do when you just CAN’T get into a good feeling state about a goal, though? What if you’re truly worried about your debt, or finding a new job or mate?
That’s where the GOD JAR comes in. In the jar, you will release your worries and remove them from your thoughts. Here’s how to make one:
1. Pick a container. A simple jar with a lid works well. Decorate it if you want by writing “God Jar” on it or “Worries Live Here”.
2. Pick a few worries. Are you losing sleep over something or stressed out about it? Those are all worries. Write each worry down on a small piece of scrap paper and fold it up. Use simple language such as “worried about debt” or “worried I’ll be in a dead end job forever” or “worried about making a mistake with our move”.
3. Place each folded scrap of paper in the jar. Be deliberate about it and take your time. Imagine yourself literally handing the worry over to a Higher Power or someone able to hold and manage the worry for you. You might want to close your eyes and say something like “I’m handing this over to you so I don’t have to worry about it anymore. You can handle it. Thank you very much.”
4. Let it go. This is tough for many people. REALLY let go of the worry. It now LIVES in the jar. If you find yourself worrying about it with the hour, day or days…write it down again on a scrap of paper and release it into the jar (step 3). Do this as many times as needed.
5. Empty the jar at some point or whenever it’s full. Don’t open or read the scraps of paper. Put them in a pile and burn them in a fire pit or line the birdcage! Do whatever you wish. Just get rid of those scraps of paper with your worries. It’s a symbolic gesture so have fun with it!
Sidenote about bonfires: I’ll never foget having a bonfire with all of the resumes I accumulated during my years as a recruiter. FELT GREAT to get rid of all of that ‘baggage’ before beginning my work as a coach.
That’s it! Even if you only have one scrap of paper in the jar, it’s worth it.
If you’re in a playful mood, go through this exericse and let me know how it goes for you!
Around this time each year, there’s a strong desire to shop, spend money and buy ‘stuff’ for your friends and family. Have you ever noticed how easy it is to lose total control of your Christmas budget and overspend? Ever wondered WHY that is?
As we get closer to the big day, the drive to buy ‘one more gift’ becomes even stronger. Can you feel it right about now? And, have you ever found yourself buying totally random gifts just because they were on sale or you didn’t want to go to a party empty-handed?
How about those holiday parties? Do you find it’s a lot harder to stick with a healthy eating routine or do your best intentions fly out the window?
What you are experiencing right now is the magnetic pull of a carefully crafted ENVIRONMENT. Next year, I’m writing a series of articles on this topic (weekly, in Inner Circle) since I find it so totally fascinating and critical for those of you wishing to feel more centered and accomplished.
When you’re over-spending or over-shopping, do you feel centered? NOPE. In fact, it’s almost as though you’re hypnotized or mindlessly ignoring a budget, debt removal goals or the best of intentions to *not* succumb to the consumerism of Christmas.
We all know how tough it is to walk away from sugary goodies or what I call ‘low energy foods’. For me, it’s sugar…for you, it could be alcohol, bread or anything that drags you down.
It takes a tremendous amount of discipline, focus and awareness to *not* get sucked into the vortex of over-shopping or eating poorly right about now. I challenge you to walk through the mall in the next day or so and notice how you FEEL. Do the same thing at a holiday party. It’s tough to say ‘no’ to foods you know are bad for you, right?
Why is that?
You see, merchants have a very clear agenda. They want your money. They want you to shop with them. They need to reach their Christmas-sales goals. So, they pull out all of the stops….lull you into a hypnotic state with cheery holiday tunes…...display merchandise in an attractive way…..and display ‘holiday sale signs’ to create a sense of urgency in your mind about making the purchase TODAY.
And, holiday hostesses want you to feel cared for and comforted by all of the goodies they’re providing. Nothing’s worse than a party without food, right? However, if you’re on a diet, those parties are like being an alcoholic walking into a bar. It’s a temptation that’s too strong to deny for many people.
Hey, none of this is evil. It’s their right to do everything they can to push their agenda (getting you to buy or attempting to throw a successful party with lots of treats to enjoy). YOUR job is to be clear about YOUR agenda, however.
So, here’s my beef and what I’m doing about it next year….
What I see in the world right now is a lot of AGENDAS surrounding you. More so than ever! Companies want to sell you things. Your boss wants you to work harder or longer hours. Even friends and family want something from you….your time, attention and energy.
Your friends and family have an agenda? Did I REALLY say that?
Well, yes. Let’s face it, we’re in the greatest self-expression explosion of all time. There are hundreds of virtual taps on your shoulder each day. There’s twittering, facebooking, texting, emailing, you-tube-ing, you name it. Everyone wants an audience and it is fun and inspiring to peruse vacation photos, read updates or hear juicy news. It’s also time consuming.
Again, none of this is evil or mean-spirited. It just IS. It’s a reality of the world we live in right now. The demand for your time, energy and attention is HUGE right now. Everyone wants a piece of you.
What is YOUR agenda, though.
What do YOU want your life to be about?
While you’re checking out your friends’ latest excursion photos, are you making time to go on YOUR adventure?
We’re living in overwhelming AND exciting times. There are countless options, choices, and directions you could take. If you float through your day unaware of YOUR agenda or unclear about YOUR goals, it’s WAY too easy to succumb to someone else’s agenda.
That’s how and why people overspend, eat the wrong foods for their body, waste time during the day, work way too many hours, procrastinate or can’t seem to finish (or begin) important projects or goals.
When you live this way, you are easy prey for someone else and their agenda.
The only way through this maze with grace and ease is to make sure you’re CLEAR, FOCUSED and GROUNDED first. Then, it becomes much easier to say ‘no, thank you’ to over-spending, eating low-energy foods, working un-godly hours for your boss instead of enjoying a personal life, wasting time with meaningless tasks or anything else that gets in the way of you living your best life.
It’s time to say ENOUGH. Seriously, don’t you want your life back?
This next part may amuse you….if you’ve been paying attention to what I’ve said thus far.
OK, here’s MY agenda. Yes, I do have one.
I want to teach you how to reclaim your life by being much more mindful of the ‘environments’ you live in. More importantly, I want you to take charge of those environments and re-design them so it’s much easier to remain centered and faithful to your goals.
For example, even though everyone and their dog is promoting their businesses on facebook or twitter, I am NOT. I may change my mind about it at some point, but for now I’m NOT. You see, I choose not to since I find it a big time drain. Yes, I have a personal facebook page but that’s enough for me. If I had a business page, I’d feel compelled to interact a lot with people (I don’t like ignoring others when they reach out to me.) It would bug me to have a half a&* site that’s unattended. And, I don’t feel it’s right to secretly delegate this task to my assistant since people would expect to interact with me personally. So, I don’t do it at all. And, I know how important it is to manage my time effectively. That’s how I remain happy and fulfilled. BALANCED.
I do know others are much better at ‘facebooking’ than I am and it’s not a time drain for them. For ME, it is, so I don’t do it. Fortunately, I’ve been able to attract people through good old word of mouth referrals from happy clients. Sure, it might be nice to have MORE business from facebook, but how much is ‘enough’ and do I want to spend the time over-working anyway?
Instead, I choose to focus on my vision of a simple, balanced and successful life….rather than being swayed by our culture’s hunger for abundance (another ‘environment’) or mind set of ‘more is better’. For me, ‘enough’ is just right. For me, ‘enough’ allows for the highest quality of service I can provide without turning into the Wal-Mart of coaching. It also affords me the balanced life I truly enjoy.
Facebook and Twitter are ‘environments’. They’re little worlds you live in while you’re ‘there’ online. Is it a place you enjoy? If so, go for it! Or, is it a time drain for you or does it feel like an obligation? Just something to think about so you can be mindful of your decision to be involved or not. Does it serve your highest goals or not? Again, I’m all for it if you love it. And, yes, I know my personal opinion is very unpopular on this subject. That’s EXACTLY what it takes to be in command of your life, however. You’ll have to make some unpopular decisions that are right for YOU, even if other people don’t agree or understand. Again, it’s YOUR agenda or someone else’s. Which do you want?
Here’s another example: Where you eat lunch is another ‘environment’. Do you go to the company cafeteria since it’s easy access or all of your buddies enjoy going? Does their food align with your fitness goals? Is there another lunch spot that would make it much easier for you to reach your health and fitness goals? Personally, I go to Whole Foods many days for lunch. It’s very cafeteria-esque with the food bar but the food choices are MUCH healthier than your typical company cafe. See how one small tweak in environment could make a world of difference with an important goal?
What if you made several KEY tweaks to the environments you choose to live in? What would happen to your life?
Isn’t this stuff FASCINATING? Can you see how living a quality life in these times has everything to do with what’s around you and where you place yourself?
You live in at least 20 key environments each day! Did you know that? Can you name them?
Do those environments have a hold on YOU or are they designed to lift you up and support you?
That’s what we’ll explore next year in Inner Circle.
In addition to discovering how to carefully design your key environments as ‘thrive zones’ for you, I also want you to learn how to be totally centered and on-point in any environment….even your favorite store (with a major sale) days before Christmas! Or, a holiday party with all of your vices displayed on doilies and silver trays.
So, why do I care enough to write about this?
You see, years ago, I became a coach after having an epiphany during rush-hour traffic. As I looked around, I noticed how most people looked really unhappy during their drive home. That struck me as sad and wrong. After a day’s work, wouldn’t you want to feel jazzed and happy? In my mind, that’s how things ought to be, so I spent the first 10 years coaching people to redesign their careers and lives.
Now, I’m in the midst of another epiphany. What I see NOW are people at the mercy of their environments. So, they eat junk/fast food (because it’s everywhere), get into debt (since shopping is a national past-time), work too much (due to lean times and companies requiring more from workers), fritter away countless hours each week (over-consuming as an audience member in online gossip/tabloids or the self-expression/social media explosion) and lose balance along the way.
You CAN have the experience you want to have in this lifetime. It all begins with awareness and the courage to actively create the life (and environments) you want and need to thrive.
That’s my speech for the day! Now, go enjoy your holidays and I’ll ‘see’ you in 2011.
Your coach,
One small change that’s made a big difference this year has been the switch to smoothies for breakfast. Sure, I still love bacon and eggs from time to time but I find myself much more energized with blended fruits in the AM. I developed the habit after going through a 21 day cleanse and noticing how incredibly vibrant and fantastic I felt.
My first cleanse was in 2009 and I repeated it again this year, one year later. If you want to read about the first one, go here.
Smoothies allow your body to rest a bit (not as much to digest) and I think of it as a mini cleanse each day. After a big Thanksgiving meal and prepping for the holiday season, I think it’s a smart idea to weave at least one healthy meal into your day. Lots of my clients want to lose weight or feel better but don’t know how. Consider making this one change to your eating routine (smoothies for breakfast) and see how you feel. Here are two of my favorite recipes:
This first one is full of blueberries. I like to load up at the farmer’s market (we found an awesome organic vendor there) and freeze them for many months of use.
BLUEBERRY and CHOCOLATE (yes) SMOOTHIE
1 cup blueberries (frozen helps make it cold, buy organic if possible)
1 1/2 cups unsweetened almond milk (with the nut milks at Whole Foods or most stores now)
1 packet stevia (awesome, natural sweetener)
2 teaspoons raw cacao powder (it’s a superfood,healthy!)
bonus: one scoop superfood, green powder
bonus: one heaping tablespoon brown rice protein powder
Note: You can use other protein powders but be careful with soy since most people are allergic. And, whey is dairy. Don’t go for that if you’re lactose intolerant. Brown Rice protein has been a GREAT find for me this year. I like the Nutribiotic brand.
BLEND and drink.
This next one sounds yucky but it’s not too shabby. I always feel great whenever I drink it.
GREEN SMOOTHIE
1 1/2 cups of unsweetened almond milk
1/2 cup coconut water (use fresh or buy it on the shelves. Both will work)
2 leaves lacinato (dark green) kale or swiss chard, coarsely chopped
1/4 avocado (give the smoothie body, I skip it if I don’t have an avocado)
1/2 cup mango chunks (easy to buy frozen)
1/2 cup ice if you’re not using frozen fruits
BLEND and drink.
Make your life EASIER by loading up on fruits from the frozen section. Look for organic. Or, buy in season and cut up to store in the freezer.
Enjoy!
Over the next 21 days, I will follow a program created by Dr.Alejandro Junger. It’s quite simply called Clean. He has a book by the same name, if you want to check it out.
There are 2 ways to do the program…one is outlined in his book and requires some work since you’ll be making fresh juices and cooking a lot. The other is sold on his website and is much simpler (in my opinion). Always a fan of simplicity, I’ve opted for the simpler route.
Here’s what I’m facing over the next 3 weeks..
(UPDATE: I repeated the cleanse again in 2010…about a year later. I highly recommend it.)
I’ll start each day with a liquid meal/shake and some supplements. Lunch-time will be a REAL meal (food outlined in his book/ chicken, veggies, etc.) with more supplements. And, dinner will look a lot like breakfast since it’s another liquid meal. So, we’re talking about one traditional meal a day! Can I do it? We’ll see.
WHY am I doing this? Well, let me start by saying I’m already very into “clean living”. I gave up dairy years ago since it made me feel bloated. I rarely drink alcohol and water is truly my favorite beverage. You’ll rarely see me drinking a soft drink or eating junky food. Most of my food is purchased at my fave store, Whole Foods, and I pay very close attention to eating quality food. But, I do have two vices that come back now and again…I love BREAD and SUGAR.
When I’m bread and sugar-free, I feel INCREDIBLE. But, with too many summer barbeques lately (and those yummy burgers on hamburger buns) and too many chocolate chip cookies (love those), I’m starting to feel less than incredible. Some of you might laugh when you read this since I don’t sound very toxic, right? My sister teased me about this today and wondered what on earth I’ll “detox” out of my body. She affectionately refers to me as the ‘well-oiled machine’ since I am pretty conscious about what I eat. But, for ME, I know I can feel better and I’m curious to see what will happen if I do this particular nutritional cleanse for 3 whole weeks!
PLUS, I’m turning 40 this September and want to enter that decade of my life feeling and looking my absolute best. So, here we are!
My plan is to update this article every day to document how I’m feeling and any other insights about the cleanse. I’m sharing this with my friends and clients since I know it might inspire a few of you to upgrade your health. I do want to say I’m *not* necessarily recommending this program (yet) since I haven’t been through it. So, if you’re interested in giving it a go, please check with your doctor first. It’s my understanding this program is *not* recommended for everyone but it does have glowing testimonials from well-respected people, so I have a feeling it’s a good one.
If you subscribe to this blog, you will *not* get a new update sent to you each day. So, check this page online if you’re curious to know how I’m doing.
DAY 1 (July 15th): My shakes and supplements arrived yesterday and I was excited to begin this AM. As a coincidence (!!), today was also the first day to volunteer delivering food to the homeless. My sister recruited me to help once a month and today was a quick “training”. Can you believe it…guess what the food was? TONS of BREAD, COOKIES and CHOCOLATE CUPCAKES (with sprinkles). I kid you not. It made me laugh out loud. So, there we were picking up day old items from various stores and delivering it to food pantries and homeless shelters around town.
I have 3 thoughts about this ‘coincidence’:
1. There are no coincidences and I’m being tested from day one to see how committed I am to the program. I passed that test with flying colors. It truly wasn’t even hard to do.
2. Homeless people need better nutrition. It makes me sad to think they are loading up on bread and sugary treats. I hope they have access to more quality food as well.
3. I don’t really know what ‘hungry’ feels like in comparison to millions of people around the world.
This was a good experience for me since I WAS worried about being hungry on this plan, but now I’m not. And the truth is, I’m not hungry TODAY. Let’s see what happens tomorrow.
Day 2: (July16th) Nothing too eventful today. I will say the powdered shake is not very yummy. I had to use the old “plug your nose” while you drink it trick I learned from my parents a long time ago. It helped. Funny how our sense of smell is such a factor when it comes to food. Salmon and veggies for lunch (not a departure from how I usually eat, though). But, the good news is that there was NO sugar today and NO bread. I’m realizing bread isn’t really the issue since I’m not craving it at all. But, sugar is another story. I started reading about the program a bit more and am thinking about changing gears and making the recipes in the book which are smoothies, juices and soups. Sure, I’ll to go on a scavenger hunt to look for some of the ingredients…but I think that actually might make this cleanse more of a challenge for me and yield greater results, too. I’m sure the shakes are ideal for busy people but the truth is I have the time to prepare meals. The one major negative I already feel is that I’m not getting enough “live food” benefits. I’ve done week long JUICE fasts before (fresh veggies, fruits, in a juicer) and always feel incredible. On another note, I sat in my infrared sauna today for 30 minutes to get my ‘sweat on.’ Sweating daily is always recommended during a cleanse. I think it helped! FYI, my sauna was purchased through SunlightSaunas. LOVE IT. I’ve been in contact with the “Clean Program” staff and must say they are very helpful!
Day 3: (July17th) Feeling very CALM today. A better word to describe the feeling might be “even”. I have my usual amount of high energy but this cleanse is adding a calm feeling that I really like. Since I have hypoglycemia, my blood sugar is a tricky matter if not managed just right. Even though I’m only eating one solid meal a day,with two shakes for other meals, I feel full and my blood sugar feels very stable all day long. I did have some trouble falling asleep last night since I felt so energized.
Days 4-6 (July 18-20th) I’m writing this Monday morning. Switched gears and started making some of the recipes in the book. Now, I’m alternating between the recipes and the powdered shakes. I felt kind of puny/weak Saturday AM. From about noon onward, I felt great all weekend. I know there are energy slumps now and again during a detox. I find myself feeling super relaxed in my body, which is a very good feeling. At the same, time I have loads of energy. It’s an ideal combo for me. I love it. My body is starting to hum, if that makes sense. I can literally feel energy moving throughout my body. I feel very vibrant and centered. Oh yes, Dr. Junger (author of the book) sent me a note on Friday. He’s reading my journal. LOVE THAT! He challenged me to re-think my hypoglycemia, too. I’ll write more about that later. I’ve been having loads of insights about that topic lately.
Day 7 (July21st) OK, I feel like I’m starting to sound like a broken record. Today’s update? I still feel great! Since many of the recipes are “raw” (uncooked), I’ve been researching raw food eating plans. After the 21 days, Dr. Junger suggests eating a diet made up of at least 51% raw food. I plan to make that happen…maybe 50-70%? We’ll see. Tomorrow, I’m scheduled to deliver bread and cupcakes to the homeless shelters again. Let’s see how that goes. Kind of grosses me out, to be honest. Although, I did start salivating a bit while passing fresh ciabatta rolls at Whole Foods yesterday. OH YES, I made a super yummy smoothie with blueberries and cacao (raw cocoa) with almond milk (non dairy). So, basically, we’re talking about a chocolate-blueberry milkshake. I’m a fan. I’m also grateful to learn some healthy alternatives that totally satisfy my sweet tooth. Feeling GOOD. More tomorrow.
Day 8 (July 22nd) This morning I ate what tasted like lawn clippings for breakfast. I was in a rush and loaded a lot of random veggies into the blender with water with some apples for sweetness. Broccoli, kale, swiss chard, etc.. I must really be committed to the cleanse process since I downed the drink without thinking about it too much. I still have an aftertaste in my mouth and it’s HOURS later. Oh well.
After breakfast, I delivered day old bread/cookies/cakes to the homeless shelters again. If you’ve been reading my updates you’ll know my sis recruited me to do this recently. Probably not an ideal fit for me, I know. But, I did it and it wasn’t a problem at all.
So, there I was driving along with piles of bread in my front seat, mountains of choc chip cookies in the backseat and cake and cinnamon rolls in the trunk (where they belong!!)HILARIOUS. Yes, there I was with a car full of junk and a stomach full of lawn clippings.
Lo and behold, I still feel FABULOUS. Nothing can derail me!
Days 9-10 (July 23-24) Well folks, I’m near the midway point. Yesterday (day 9) was slightly different. I had my 2 liquid meals for breakfast and lunch and the “real meal” (fish and veggies) for dinner. No issues with hypoglycemia at all, even though there was a long stretch of time not eating much. Fascinating!! I did feel very light yesterday…sort of like a floating feeling. Not sure if I liked it. Not hungry at all, just light. Since I’m not eating any dense food, this makes sense to me. I prefer to feel more grounded, though. Wondering if that can only be accomplished with more dense foods? I’ll explore this more after the 21 days. For now, I’ve decided to simply be an observer and see what else happens with my body…On another note, I’ve been attracting lots of coaching opportunities. Literally 5 or 6 people a day have been contacting me for phone coaching. Since I don’t have space, I keep saying “no” or add them to my waiting list. None of them read this blog, either! They’re just random people showing up for coaching…I always see a relationship between what I ATTRACT in my life and how I FEEL. When I take really good care of myself, I attract a lot more. That’s a plus and a minus. I’ll say more about that later. Happy Weekend everyone!!
Days 11-13 (July 25-27th) You know that cozy feeling you get in winter while sitting in front of a warm fire…wrapped in a blanket, on the couch? Well, that’s how I feel in my BODY now. I have the coziest feeling and it’s truly wonderful. I think it’s from eating so many fruits and veggies (blended into smoothies). Not really losing too much weight, which is fine with me. My meals, while mainly liquid, do have substantial calories. I wonder if I could eat this way forever?? Life feels sweeter and I’m even more aware of things around me. I’m usually fairly aware and “in the moment” but more so lately. Feeling really, really, really good. Looking good, too, if I may say! My skin is super clear and my eyes are sparkly. 
One interesting point made by Dr. Junger is about ‘hunger’. He says that hunger isn’t always HUNGER for food. I’ve tried to notice that within myself. I haven’t felt very hungry at all during this cleanse. But, the moments when I did feel hungry were usually linked to some sort of frustration. So, it’s not really hunger…it’s frustration. For example, I had an insanely busy day recently and craved a cookie for the first time since I started this thing. I wasn’t REALLY hungry (in fact, it was only one hour after lunch!). What I wanted was some sugar to make me feel better or to ‘numb’ the feeling of frustration. Now, what I am doing is looking for ways to remove that frustration from my life since insanely busy days don’t really serve me very well.
In a way, this cleanse is healing for the body AND for the soul. It’s encouraging me to continue to add balance to my life (I’m pretty good at it already, but need to tweak a couple of things to operate in the best way possible!)
Days 14-15 (July 28th and 29th) I’m getting lots of emails now from those of you reading my detox diary. Sounds like many people are inspired to give it a try! I do recommend the program. Buy the book (mentioned above) and stick with the plan. It’s all spelled out there.
Today, I woke up early to do the bread/cookie/cake delivery to homeless shelters around town. I’ve got this down to a science now. Doesn’t take long at all. However, I am still not sure I resonate with the type of food I’m delivering. Today, I ran into some of the people waiting for food and chatted with them about life and looked into their eyes to get a sense of how they were feeling. They were so grateful for the food and I realized that they also have access to veggies and other goodies at the shelter. So, I’m happy to hear about their well rounded diet. And, when times are rough, I guess a chocolate cupcake can give someone a lift.
One woman said the cupcakes remind her of birthdays and happy times. So, I’m trying not to judge what people eat and just be happy for them. This brings me to another point. In the past, whenever I’ve ‘discovered’ something great I always wanted to tell everyone about it and convert them to this fabulous new find of mine. Now, I don’t feel like doing that very much, which is good for me. I find myself allowing other people to do whatever they want. Feels much lighter to me and I like it. What’s interesting is how certain people are attracted to what I’m doing and asking about it. I’m always happy to share.
The difference now is that I don’t feel like I have to save the world and everyone’s eating habits. What I do know (from coaching a lot of people) is that when someone is really ready to change, they will change. I know lots of people are looking for many solutions to all sorts of problems. For me, I was looking for a solution to my hypoglycemic tendencies, I realize. I found it. And, it all started by reading a book with info I’ve read in various ways in the past.. I was ready to hear the message NOW, though. TIming is everything.
Oh yes, one of my new favorite smoothies (have I talked about this before?) has blueberries and raw cocoa. That’s my new choc cupcake. I wonder if I can put a candle in it and make it a birthday cake?? Funny.
Days 16-17 (July 30 and 31st) The last two days haven’t been my finest. I’ve been slightly off course with meals and skipped a couple! I don’t have much of an appetite, which is interesting. Only drank half of my green smoothie this morning, too. Just didn’t want more. I know I need to eat since the meals are so few and far between and full of essential nutrients for living! The catalyst for this must be my busy schedule. I’ve been so focused I worked right through lunch. Haven’t done that in years. I discovered some RAW granola at the healthfood store without sugar and have been snacking on it. Not exactly a cheat item (you can have snacks) but not really ideal in lieu of lunch. Tomorrow is a new day and I’ll get back on the schedule with 3 meals a day. I’m in the home stretch and it feels great! Thanks to everyone for your great emails. Much appreciated.
Days 18-19 (Aug. 1 and 2) I’m in the home stretch! The finish line is within sight! Maybe I’ll celebrate with a chocolate chip cookie. JUST KIDDING. I will say I started craving a wee bit of chocolate this weekend and learned that it could be a lack of magnesium! I guess chocolate is loaded with magnesium so I’ll start taking some supplements after the cleanse and see if this helps. The craving has been minor, but it’s worth mentioning since I’ve learned that when in a CLEAN state, the body craves nutrients it needs..and not usually junk. Of course, when you have sugar in your system (which I don’t right now), your body will crave more sugar since sugar feeds on sugar. My goal is to continue to be sugar-free and notice the cravings my body has and then try to add those nutrients to my daily diet. A balanced body…Loving it.
Days 20-21 (Aug. 3 and 4) I MADE IT. Yippee! The final week was kind of a blur, really. I can’t believe the 21 days flew by so quickly. Now, I’m thinking of adding a few extra days just for good measure. Other people in the program are doing that so it’s inspiring me to go for it, too.
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I ran across an EXTRAORDINARY short film the other day on YouTube. It literally brings tears (happy ones) to my eyes each time I watch it…and I’ve watched about ten times already.
So, I want to share it with you. The link is below.
It’s the story of a young girl with a dream to do something BIG.
The odds aren’t in her favor.
Many of her peers try to knock her down, too.
But she has an edge…
She has a mentor who believes she can do anything she desires…
If she can simply learn to tune out the outer critics, the unfavorable odds and real challenges….
And tune into her dream instead.
She also has the discipline to take small steps forward each week…
Which eventually leads to ONE big finale. You really have to watch the video to understand.
You know, that’s EXACTLY how life works.
It’s also how my Inner Circle Program works.
Each week, I inspire people to tune into their dream of how they want their life to be…
Then, they step into action by taking steps forward each week.
When they get knocked down or meet challenges along the way…
Their coach reminds them to stay focused on what they want and to keep walking forward.
That’s me. I’m the coach.
Are you my client?
Once July 6th rolls around, if you aren’t on board, there won’t be another chance unitl 2010.
Here’s the video. It’s short and I know you’ll be very moved after watching it. Make sure you turn your speakers up since the music is such an integral part of the experience.
Enjoy!
ps. Click here for more info about how I inspire people to name their dreams and focus their time and energy on taking action each week.
What will your big finale be at the end of this year?
Today, I heard Howard Behar (former president of Starbucks Coffee North America and Starbucks International) speak to a group of coaches via conference call. You may know about him already or read the book he recently pubilshed called It’s Not About The Coffee .
Some of the highlights of the talk:
* Behar stressed the importance of values and being true to yourself. He believes that’s one of the core secrets of success (as do I!!)
* He talked about expanding Starbucks into locations such as Tokyo and not really knowing how to do that at first. Yet, he INSPIRED people to help him since they connected with him on a human level. They saw his desire to help people and wanted to help him in return. Great lesson in life. People will help you (and want to help you) if you can find a way to connect with them on a very basic, human level. I preach this to my clients constantly. If you’re hoping to break into a new career, for example, look for someone else in that field and ask them to help or mentor you. The trick is to INSPIRE them to want to help you. I teach my clients how to do that.
* The job of a great leader, in Behar’s opinion, is to constantly (DAILY) remind the ‘partners’ (that’s what Starbucks calls their employees) about the values of the organization and to live those values on a regular basis.
* In addition, he talked about ‘servant leadership’ and making sure he wasn’t just leading his team to accomplish the company’s goals…but to also lead them to accomplish their own personal goals. I love that!
* He also taked about “inner knowing” and the importance of listening to your intuition (although he didn’t use that exact word).
* Finally, Behar said he was really in the people business and his true desire was to build better humans…so to speak…not just build better coffee.
Is this refreshing or what? No wonder Starbucks is so successful! I don’t even drink coffee yet I love that place. It’s a cool place to hang out with your laptop and write while drinking a healthy Odwalla smoothie (smart, Starbucks, to offer options for non-coffee folks like me) I think people like it there since it has a good vibe. The employess seem genuinely happy and the whole place is usually buzzing with energy. Is it the caffeine or is it simply the happy/relaxed environment? At any rate, I believe customers are attracted to businesses that feel good to them.
How can you apply this all to your own life, even if you don’t run a business?
First of all, get clear about WHO you are and the life you want to live. KNOW your values and make sure your life is a reflection of those values.
“Lead” yourself by constantly reminding yourself of your values (the same way Behar reminded his empployees on a daily basis). We all need reminders and remembering what you value is KEY. Write down a few of your values and frame them by your bathroom sink. READ the list while brushing your teeth each morning. It’s a very simple way to ground yourself each day.
Think beyond yourself and try to help others in some way. I’ve always said that the key to uncovering your ideal career is to think about how you can serve others. What’s a gift you have that other people could beneift from greatly? Share that gift with the world and design a career around it. Too many people think about how they can make $ instead of how they can make a difference. But, look at Starbucks as a shining example….when you focus on making a difference you can make a lot of $.
Check out this list from the book and pick up a copy for yourself. All net proceeds from the book are being dontated to a couple of causes close to Behar’s heart:
10 Principles of Personal Leadership - from Howard Behar’s book It’s Not About The Coffee
1. Know Who You Are: Wear One Hat
Our success is directly related to our clarity and honesty about who we are, who we’re not, where we want to go, and how we’re going to get there. When organizations are clear about their values, purpose, and goals, they find the energy and passion to do great things.
2. Know Why You’re Here: Do It Because It’s Right, Not Because It’s Right for Your Resume
The path to success comes from doing things for the right reasons. You can’t succeed if you don’t know what you’re trying to accomplish and without everyone being aligned with the goal. Look for purpose and passion in yourself and the people you lead. If they’re not there, do something.
3. Think Independently: The Person Who Sweeps the Floor Should Choose the Broom
People are not “assets,” they are human beings who have the capacity to achieve results beyond what is thought possible. We need to get rid of rules—real and imagined—and encourage the independent thinking of others and ourselves.
4. Build Trust: Care, like You Really Mean It
Caring is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of strength, and it can’t be faked—within an organization, with the people we serve, or in the local or global community. Without trust and caring we’ll never know what could have been possible. Without freedom from fear, we can’t dream and we can’t reach our potential.
5. Listen for the Truth: The Walls Talk
Put the time into listening, even to what’s not said, and amazing results will follow. You’ll know what you’re customers want, you’ll know why the passion is missing from your organization, you’ll learn solutions to problems that have been sitting there waiting to be picked.
6. Be Accountable: Only the Truth Sounds like the Truth
No secrets, no lies of omission, no hedging and dodging. Take responsibility and say what needs to be said, with care and respect.
7. Take Action: Think like a Person of Action, and Act like a Person of Thought
Find the sweet spot of passion, purpose, and persistence. “It’s all about the people” isn’t an idea, it’s an action. Feel, think, do. Find the balance, but act.
8. Face Challenge: We Are Human Beings First
Use all the principles to guide you during the hardest times. If the challenge is too big, if you’re stuck, take smaller bites. But remember to put people first, and you’ll find the guidance you need.
9. Practice Leadership: The Big Noise and the Still, Small Voice
Leading can be the noisy, “I’m here!” kind of thing. But don’t ever forget that leaders are just ordinary human beings. Don’t let the noise crowd out the truth. Listen to your still, small voice. Let quiet be your guide.
10. Dare to Dream: Say “Yes,” the Most Powerful Word in the World
Big dreams mean big goals, big hopes, big joys. Say “yes” and enjoy all that you are doing, and help others to do the same.
I sent out a survey nearly 3 weeks ago and thought you’d be interested in reading some of the answers to the most important question of all. The question I asked?
“If ANYTHING could happen in your life over the next year, what would thrill you? In other words, what changes would you like to see in your life or career?” Check out some of the replies below!
I’m going to leave this page on my website all throughout 2009, by the way. So, try finding your answer (and remember the # so you can easily find it again)...and please know your wish has been ordered! It’s in print so that makes it official, right? Come back to this page often to remind yourself of your most precious wish for 2009.
Here’s what people said they MOST wanted to happen next year:
1. Have a child.
2. I’d love to find a job that I enjoyed and that would be flexible enough for me to take care of things at home.
3. to fall in love
4. A balanced life with goals, I would like to get more pleasure and contentment out of life, take nice trips, have an abundance of spending money, Iwould love to make NEW friends and have better relationships..
5. new job-career
6. I’d like my life to have more stibility and routine in it so the family could function better.
7. Meet the right guy or travel to at least one of the places on my “to see” list.
8. Financial abundance to be a stay-at-home mom while still being able to afford nice things for my home, family vacations, etc.
9. A new man, new home, great job, fitness, routinely out with nature and debt free
10. I would like to have a steady and large income
11. My business would become a success! I would like to have more time to spend with boyfriend and to maintain relationships with family & friends.
12. find a job as a college advisor OR a job that incorporates photography and creativity, without requiring too much technical skill or stress that in some way involves or benefits children, people living struggling with global poverty or health issues or the environment
13. Reduce my work hours
14. would love to see my photography career evolve somehow.
15. *Improve & become much more satisfied w/ my own work performance, & more highly regarded by peers & supervisor, thus happier & more proud of my work in these last few years before retirement * Commit so well to a health plan that I become slim & fit & attractive even to myself * Become emotionally ready to want to find a male friend/companion/partner with whom I can regain trust, commitment, happiness, & a satisfying sex life *De-clutter & make upgrades to my house w/out losing its “home” feel for my sons or me; get a handle on my paperwork packrat problem; integrate family heirlooms while also updating decor
16. Learn to take great care of myself AND create and maintain excellent standards.
17. get to goal weight & maintain it, start making money as a writer
18. I could use a little “Umph” in my life right now. Things are good but they could be better. My weight is okay but would be better if I lost 10-15 pounds. My house is presentable but would be better if the basement was organized. My spiritual life is blessed but if I’d Bible read/pray more consistently…..you get the idea. It’s not a mess but with a little consistent effort, it could be more.
19. Make a full life transition—make my move to a new city and have a full social life with friends and family to do things with!
20. Earn more money! Buy my first home. Create an ideal living/work situation for my disabled teenager.
21. Get started in a new career, lose weight, get my house under control, find new interesting friend groups that are like minded.
22. 1. Lose six more pounds (already lost 8) 2. Finish decluttering paperwork in my filing cabinet (I am dealing with these right now and hope to have them accomplished in the beginning of 2009)
23. taking accountability to self as importantly as accountability to others.
24. I am reducing my debt and will have attained most of financial restructuring by May 09. I have strong concerns about spending enough time with my older Mother and my daughter who is graduating from high school. My husband also works a lot of hours and time with him is limited. I would like a career that involves some traveling to new places, but also involves my online health certification business, but also provides insurance benefits and retirement. I am 3 years away from being vested in my current position. It has been suggested I work toward a vice presidency position, but am concerned about the time that be required of me
25. Getting back to my creative, funloving old self.
26. Become fit and lean. Do work that I love and that matters to me (preferably teach literacy) and to work in an environment that I enjoy being in—a private office with windows. To work with truly good people.
27. 2009: 1.) Manifest great new relationship that will lead to marriage. 2.) Achieve fantastic Trainer/Educator full time position in public speaking, leadership coaching and/or technical training for established company I can learn from. 3.) Take an exotic 2 week vacation to Turkey with friends.
28. I am in the beginning of a joyful relationship with my boyfriend and I would be THRILLED if it justs keeps getting better and better (as it has been for these last few months). I would also love to buy a house in a neighborhood/area I LOVE.
29. That I would feel satisfied with my relationship, or kno what I should do to improve it. That I would better knoww how to look inside for my fulfillment.
30. -decision about grad school -smaller, easier to manage house -pay off credit card debt
31. I’d like to own a thriving business and the changes would need to be finding the passion to pursue the business no matter what it takes.
32. Find my path of fulfillment, joy, and peace on this journey.
33. I would love to get a job that makes a difference in people’s lives that actually pays the bills.
34. That’s a hard one. I guess I need to do more dreaming.
35. more money, confidence, power
36. To see my small business become wildly successful
37. My goal is to be full of energy, yet calm and confident. I want to have enough energy to meet my goals, such as making well over six figures, getting super healthy, and taking care of our new baby.
38. Healthier lifestyle and getting out of debt
39. the job ive been waiting for and the partner i crave!
40. publish a book; get a full time tenured university teaching position; and/or my business takes off
41. My two autistic sons would recover or make significant progress with their unique issues.
42. owning a home of my own.
43. Clear out the non-essentials in my life so that I have the freedom to create a structure for myself and have the freedom to be spontaneous.
44. to know what i want and go for it
45. having a career/business that fit my personality and my passions
46. Be financialy secure and travel
47. Find a direction and purpose for my work life.
48. Create a career that would allow me to work from home, financially support my family, leave me with enough energy for family/friend time, and allow me to pursue some other interests that aren’t money-makers. I’d like to be in a helping/service profession and not selling something.
49. get organized so I wouldn’t feel so overwhelmed all the time
50. Work in a smaller company with more professional people in a more defined/mature dept/company
51. Getting out of debt and achieving some life balance
52. career change
53. Get a new job in a fabulous location
54. need to improve income which has been decreasing in part because of economic condition in Michigan
55. Marriage.
56. Attract my ideal mate
57. more JOY in my marriage
58. lose weight
59. get healthy
60. To find my life partner
61. Figuring out what I want to be when I grow up and getting a clean bill of health.
62. Becoming debt free, buying my first home, making more money, getting a handle on time management, becoming more organized, looking better (being able to afford to pamper myself, buy nice clothes, getting my hair and nails done professionally)
63. Having my ideal career and keeping the balance I currently have…improvements =home and income. Already working on home improvements and de cluttering and researching new work options. My current income is temporary and I want/need more. I will focus more on the career after I get my home minimized of items and updated.
64. Finding the love of my life.
65. If I met a guy and was in a solid, loving relationship.
66. Hit a financial jackpot so that we can comfortably buy a lovely house!
67. My children finding life partners. More grand children. Getting out of debt forever. Securing financial stabiliy for the future. Opportunity to travel.
68. job more in line with my spirit, identifying what that career track would be and then landing the job
69. Extended travel in foreign countries; I did it when I was 22, put off going back to school for another degree for a year as I thought my education was more important than schooling.
70. That my business would really take off and generate enough money to live on.
71. weight loss and trying to find a new career path
72. A fabulous new role that uniquely fits me and the things I value and desire (at the next level of the organization, responsibility, leadership support, incredible manager, highly valued subject area, an office rather than a cube, more money, great teammates, clarity of objective, etc.)
73. Marriage/Engagement Successful new business Money in the bank A new real estate investment Successful family relationships with planned get togethers
74. I would like to make the Yosemite quilt I promised my father 6 years ago. I’ve got the fabric, but haven’t started the quilt yet. Want it to be perfect. Afraid that it won’t be, so won’t start it. I know that, but still won’t start it.
75. To visit and experience 3 of my 7 Natural Wonders of the World.
76. Peace, regardless of circumstances.
77. I would like to retire from my current job with enough financial security to pursue my next calling at my own personal pace, to include ‘trying’ out different options before committing.
78. I would be thrilled if my business was filled with coaches like you. I have had a VA business for several years, and I am now focusing on a more defined target market. I want to learn what services business coaches are looking for from a VA and how to penetrate that market.
79. Locating a management position in the elder living industry. I think I want to help self sufficient over 65 individuals manage their money, help them understand medicare, support their personal lives and still feel self- sufficient.
80. More money.
81. landing my perfect career that is filled with passion and purpose
82. Global warming averted; children happy and self supporting, engaged, contributing; feeling of joy or being thrilled
83. FIX CREDIT, BUY CONDO, SCHOOL FULL TIME
84. Growth of my new consulting business
85. I want to get very clear about what I really want, most specifically around career/work. I want to feel excited about what I’m doing.
86. Find a new career where my talents and creativity are used and that is financially stable with benefits and retirement…as good as that can be right now:(
87. Being organized and getting rid of junk.
88. Selling my TV pilot which would lead to studios looking at my other projects.
89. more of what i already have!
90. discovering the job, mate and location that provide me with life balance and totally fills my life with passion and feeds my spirit
91. I would love to find out what I want to do in life, what I want to be, what will make ME happy and then put it into action.
92. A little more stability in finances, relationships and living situations .For the past four years nothing has been steady and constant.
93. to have transitioned from my current job to earning income from my business that is greater than that from my job.
94. Finish writing a book and actually submit it. I have written loads of childrens books but I never submit them.
95. Meet someone, fall in love and have a healthy relationship.
96. Get out of debt and New job .
97. improve the quality of my life/stuck in a rut .
98. What could happen? 1) Card decks completed & published & marketed; 2) Book well-on-the-way to the above;3) Increased income allowing me to work a job p.t.w/health benefits (v. f.t.)
99. My own coaching Biz
100. I would love to find my ideal job - one that doesn’t involve toxic people who drain me on a daily basis.
101. I would find a job that suits me and allows me to do research and pays well.
102. getting a regular gig singing jazz standards in a classy place
Seeing all of these answers INSPIRED me to add another feature to my new Inner Circle Coaching Program. Here’s what I am thinking about….I’m going to give each client their own password protected page (so the whole world can’t see it, unless they want to share it) to immortalize their goals in one place! Plus, we can include a photo or image that represents their MOST important goals. So, the client can visit their page and be reminded of what they said they wanted….I love it. What do you think? Let me know .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) if this is something you’d want in the program and I’ll add it.